Thursday, February 2, 2012

New Girl

So with the new semester, some people left my school and some people joined it. I go to a really small school, so things like this are a big deal. And there's this new girl that looked like someone I could be friends with. She has the same look as my friends, and even sat with my friends on her first day.

But then she started to hang out with a group of girls at my school. They're kind of... odd. Not that I have a problem with odd people, most of them are really nice girls that I have no problem with. But one of them, who I will call Obamaniqwa is an immature, annoying... person. It's not just me that thinks this. If she was nice, I would tolerate her, but she's not. She's mean. Even her friends don't like her, which, you know, is never good. I texted her today, asking for new girl's number, and she wrote back a very mean thing, claiming that new girl was the one who told her to say it, but the people who were around her when she texted me this said that new girl did no such thing. But who knows.

So the new girl is hanging out with Obamaniqwa and her nice friends, but Obamaniqwa has an influence on her. If I just moved to a school where everyone already knows each other, I'd probably leech onto somebody too, but new girl made a bad decision.

I've tried to talk to new girl, but Obamaniqwa has clearly influenced the way new girl acts around people. All of my friends say they think new girl is, well, let's say "mean" after today. Here's a list of things new girl has done that are what I would consider mean. 1) She doesn't make an effort to talk to people outside of Obamaniqwa and her friends. I would be shy too, if I just moved to a new school, but the problem is that if you try to talk to new girl, she's not even nice. 2) I waved to her today, said hi, and she just turned around and ignored me. Like, we made eye contact, so I know she saw me. 3) She was flirting with my best guy friend, who has a girlfriend (and everyone knows it) all day today.

If I had just moved to a new school, I would try to be nice to everyone and not already cause problems my first week there. If new girl keeps it up, the only person she'll have at this school is Obamaniqwa. We're a tight-knit bunch at my school, and if somebody's not nice, they're not going to be welcomed very warmly. New girl so far seems very full of herself, like she doesn't have to be nice to people. Maybe that's Obamaniqwa's doing, or maybe, hopefully not, but maybe, new girl is just a bitch.

I'm going to continue to try to make an effort with new girl, and hopefully she'll come to her senses and not let Obamaniqwa make all the decisions for her. I could always use another friend.

1 comments:

  1. Wow. You're a very nice person. I don't think I would have bothered... *cringes* I sound terrible, but I'm not good with mean people, even if temporary. Well, yeah, who is? But my problem is that I get flustered very easily so I avoid them as much as possible.
    I hope she's assessed the situation by now.

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